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by Kim Watson
We rescued Mountain Laurel Sitka, a four-year-old Chinook,
from Rick Skoglund's over-stuffed couch on November 7, 1998.
Well that isn't entirely true-my emotional mission to rescue
him started on that date. Rick had graciously invited our family
to visit the Perry Greene Kennel on numerous occasions. After
many cancellations on our part we finally made a date we could
keep. The children were so filled with anticipation. Rick had
sent out much information, and the kids couldn't wait to see
Chinook's original
harness, the Chinook cemetery, and all the other wonderful historical
artifacts attached to the Kennel. They also heard a rumor that
we might be buying a dog sled that day (not that we knew what
on earth to do with one!)
After meeting Rick and all the dogs we started our tour. The
dogs were lounging in the house because of the bad weather. One
dog immediately stuck out to me. Sitka greeted us as all the
other dogs did, but didn't settle back down into his spot on
the couch. He scooped us out and realized I was the alpha of
our household when it came to emotional decisions. He never left
our sides, following us everywhere, rolling upside down for a
belly rub every chance he got. We followed Rick upstairs on a
narrow staircase, to a room where he keeps a lot of old newsclippings,
precisely organized. Rick looked back and Sitka was following
us up the stairs. "Stay," he said. Sitka followed.
Rick turned to me and said, "He's such a sneak and thief,
he steals my doritos all the time off the couch." Back downstairs,
outside in the rain, in the kennel, Stika followed.
After a long visit, it was time to leave. Rick was busy loading
the kids up with hats, shirts and signs. I had been throwing
comments to my husband, Frank, all morning about how wonderful
I thought Sitka was, with nothing more than a nod of agreement.
He knew me well, and could see what I was getting at. "Frank,
can we please take him home until Rick places him permanently?"
I asked. A firm no was all I got in response. That's when my
two-year-old tantrum started. "You're so mean, he's so cute,
look how loving he is!!" Frank
stared at me for a long time, and finally said, ":I can't
believe I'm saying yes." We had all seen Sitka's personality,
and it was similar to Frank's-laid back, easy going, and I could
tell he thought he was great too. I ran over to Rick with my
proposal; just watch Sitka until he is placed. Rick was warm
but put me in my place. He told me Sitka was happy and fine where
he was until he gets placed. He knew I had no intention of "baby-sitting"
and started a long, laundry list of realistic reasons for not
taking him. Three dogs is a lot of work, he's
a sneak with food, on and on. I felt comfortable enough with
Rick to start pouting at him too. Rick and Frank exchanged glances.
"Have a nice ride home, Rick was eyeing to Frank. "Great,
thanks a lot," Frank eyed back. We said our thank you's,
and my empty heart drove away. I couldn't sleep, thinking of
poor Sitka stuck on that comfortable couch eating Doritos. I
called Rick a few days later, and begged him to let us take Sitka
on a trial basis.
I knew Rick was well aware that I didn't have much dog expertise
based on the numerous stupid questions I've asked him about raising
dogs. However, I think he saw a quality worth of Chinook ownership-a
loving family. Using common sense that applies to all aspects
of successful parting, Rick probably saw we were responsible
enough to accept the challenge of a third dog. Sitka is not what
one would consider a rescue dog. I don't know the circumstances
that brought him to Perry Greene Kennel, and I don't feel that
it is any of our
business. I took great comfort in the fact that the CDCA Rescue
carefully places dogs with new owners, and would never compromise
a family's safety. Rick also knew me well enough to see I was
completely neurotic with safety issues. He dropped Sitka off
at our house and with a heavy sigh gave Sitka a hug, turned to
me and said "Call me."
All of a sudden there was total calmness. "Calmness before
the storm?" I wondered. No, the dogs' true colors were shining
right through. Calmness from unconditional love, quietly filling
the room. Staring at three dogs getting along fine it hit me
that this was for sure a permanent situation. All my children
love the dogs, but Katie had long ago pronounced Tia "her
dog", Frankie had always been the child most bonded with
Windsong, and Matthew, my easy going child was lying upside on
the floor bonding with Sitka. Some people were concerned that
bringing an older dog into our household would be an unfair challenge
to the calmness we had developed already. Trusting an older dog
is hard to do, breaking old habits is not easy, keeping everyone
"safe" is always an issue. I was told a rescue dog
can take from one month to a year to show its true colors. My
lack of dog rearing was offset in my mind by my confidence as
a parent. I wasn't scared at all.
The gift of Sitka becoming part of our lives is something
we all treasure and value. I have often thought about what our
contribution to the Chinook breed could be since we are such
dog novices. I have never seen a withering stick, never mind
used one. I don't know the first thing about conformation, breeding,
or most topics discussed by Chinook breeders and owners. I have
learned quickly how Chinook politics are very emotional-so was
our decision to add Stika to our family. I realize a contribution
we might be making (for now) without really noticing is to show
people that we have three dogs from two very different Chinook
worlds that show no prejudice, are completely honest and open,
have learned to tolerate each other through good and bad, and
practice fairness and respect to all in the household. Like our
children our Chinooks are unconditional with their love. Their
true colors shine right through. It's a good feeling.
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